In my book (Slices of Inspiration and Motivation) I’ve shared both my experiences through the turn of phrases, you look through for the one who has a somber, dismal atmosphere. Who eagerly, desires to lay hold of life seriously. Who deems a turn is necessary in life, and to be a change in the life of others. Cause, some don’t reform and don’t adjust accordingly. They may refine their minds after seeing your character, motive, mind set, thoughts, action etc. for good. The scope is to make known the good done. Everything depends on acts and deeds.